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When a couple has sex, rather then ‘making love’ - does the body still produce the above three chemicals? The million dollar question is: Can the act of having sex, fool the body into producing the chemicals norepinephrine, dopamine or PEA? (and the other changes that the body goes through when passion is involved)

If the chemicals that is produced when a man and a woman is “in love” was NOT present in your conception - then you could have what we call a “conception loophole” In other words your parents connected on some level, other then love.

The billion dollar question is: Can the “conception loophole” be healed or changed?

The research for this project all started when I did not respond well to a group of 3^rd grade girls who informed me that they were having a “gay club meeting” and wanted the other children to stop teasing them during their meeting.

Because I was the substitute teacher, I became overly concerned with the children’s request.

I carefully asked if this was their first meeting. When they replied “No” I then asked them if their regular teacher knew about their club? The children assured me, that she did.

Something within me said, “careful, don’t discriminate”

So I did what was safe. I sat on the fence. I didn’t say yes, nor did I say no.

Children know when they have the upper hand with adults, and these were exceptionally bright children who proceeded with their plans and told the other children where to go and how to get there.

The free play time in the after school program went well, each child decided what he/she wanted to do. There was the block area, the science area, the table game area and the gay club meeting.

The weather did not permit the regularly scheduled outdoor play time.

For months after that incident, I tried to figure out how a child in the 3^rd grade could be so adament about being gay. Did they really understand, and to what extent?

So I decided that the matter needed further investigation. This short e-book, “On the Other Side of Gay” explains my findings.

Because I’m not trained in psychotherapy, my findings can’t be backed up with degrees.

However, almost any preschool teacher, with a serious amount of experience, can verify that children whose parent’s were “in love” act very different then children whose parents weren’t “in love”

Again, the big question is: Can you heal or change the “conception loophole?”

My opinion is, yes. You can heal or change yourself.

It would take, getting the whole truth and nothing but the truth from both parents. A child would need to speak to older relatives in the family to find out what the scoop was just before they were conceived. Parents usually don’t want to reveal intimate details about their child’s conception.

It would then take, meditation, prayer (if you pray) discipline, desire, change of scenery and a knowingness that the feelings of being gay, may not be your own. These feelings may be the feelings or emotions of one, or both of your parents (or other close family members) -- feelings that have been transposed onto you, at an early age and reinforced by lovers in your adult life!

When it comes to mating, the animals get it right. Us humans sometimes have a problem, not because we don‘t know how to mate, but because the creation that we have been entrusted with, is so much more developed then that of the animal kingdom. We have to create a child that is fully developed mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Pure lust won’t create a whole child. And that’s the secret that the rest of the world understands and tries to hold over America’s head.

Often times, one parent or both, believe themselves to be in love and believe they understand what love is.

Other times, parents didn’t make the spiritual connection because of doubt and fear. And still at other times, adults get right to the door of unconditional love, in the heat of passion and pull away, at least mentally.

Fear and lust are two of the famous deadly sins. If you are a parent, then you have to question yourself, as to what degree might you have participated in these two negative emotions?

Conceiving a child has to be one of the most astonishing events on earth. Sometimes, parents mess up. Sometimes parents get it wrong because their parents before them got it wrong!

You never really know the inner thoughts and details of a persons mind and heart - so try not to blame anyone for the way things are, or appear to be.

Parents should understand, that some young people appear to be sweep up into the flow of “being gay” ….. only to pull away, and realize that, this is not what they wanted at all.

Some young people understand, at an early age, that certain thoughts, feelings and emotions are not their own, but someone else’s.

Parents may not understand that thoughts, even silent ones, that include hatred of another race or the opposite sex eventually leads to problems in a heterosexual relationship. For many Americans, they may have felt that “accepting” another race meant you had to sleep with them or become intimate with that particular race. As time has passed, we understand that accepting another race does not mean that we have to jump into bed with them -- it just means that we understand that there are other people on the planet whose DNA is different then our own --- AND if any of these different “groups of people” (including our own) were to go missing, it would upset the balance of the entire universe. Then the concern about asteroids would become more then occasional.

This report was written to empower you. Information is power, what you do with information will determine your outcome.

It has not been completely proven that the information above is true and correct.  Only you will know what true in your heart as you explore different explanations

sandy ingram, web manager